We are fortunate to have good neighbors. There are only 7 houses in our street and the residents are not much for socializing. However, we meet on occasions particularly during Christmas. I give gifts to all our neighbors even if some of them do not reciprocate my generosity. My husband would sometimes say that I should give only to those who give back. But for me, I'd say that loving your neighbor includes accepting their traits like if they are selfish. In the essence of loving they neighbor, I can see that they are all friendly to me.